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Chelsea Fertility NYC Blog

How to Talk to Your Partner About Fertility Concerns

by Chelsea Fertility NYCPosted in Trying to ConceiveJanuary 27th, 2022

When it comes to topics of discussion, fertility isn’t always the most comfortable or natural conversation. If you are experiencing doubts or issues with your fertility, you aren’t alone, and you do not need to go through it alone. Though it may feel intimidating and sometimes awkward, having open conversations with your partner about how to handle what concerns you will ease the tension, and bring you closer as you map out your vision of a family.

Focus on the Facts

Fertility truths can easily become skewed during emotional conversations, so staying devoted to the facts will keep you on track. Fertility fluctuates throughout your life--peak fertility for the average person, regardless of gender, starts in the post-puberty teen years and continues through their mid-twenties. There are differences in how each gender experiences their decline in fertility, and those with uteruses are faced with these changes much earlier in life.

Knowing the realities of reproductive health as well as all of the fertility options can help immensely. When considering the idea of starting a family, fertility options may feel futile. However, there are many options for those who are unable to conceive on their own, whether it be due to age, medical or biological constraints. Egg donation, surrogacy, and sperm donation are all wonderful ways to get assistance in having a baby.

Make Room for Each Other

Remember--you are both on the same team. Nobody is to blame, and both of your concerns should be taken seriously, without judgement. Be sure to check-in with each other regularly about where you are and how you’re feeling.

By taking the time to understand each other’s perspectives, you will learn to meet each other where you are. Though at times your feelings or opinions may differ, take time to process them so you can effectively communicate them with your partner. This will help you decide together how to best remedy your concerns, or if it would be best to seek medical council.

Allow for Grief

It is natural to avoid negative emotions, particularly when there is another person involved. Fertility can be an emotional process, especially when faced with changes or challenges. However, many fertility centers offer counseling and other forms of support for couples. Caring for yourself and your partner is the highest priority, and taking the space and time to share the pain will ease the burden.

Whether you and your partner have further questions or need guidance with next steps, experts at Chelsea Fertility NYC are here to help. If third-party reproduction is a viable option, contact us. We would be happy to set up a consultation with specialists today to connect with the right people to map out your journey.