Trying to Get Pregnant? When to Keep Trying and When to Get Support
Trying for a baby can be exciting, hopeful, and sometimes surprisingly stressful when pregnancy doesn’t happen as quickly as you expected. If you’re having trouble conceiving, you might be wondering whether to keep trying on your own or to start talking to a provider. Here is some general guidance to help you understand what’s typical, when it may be helpful to seek support, and what your next steps could look like.
When to Seek a Fertility Evaluation
For many healthy couples, pregnancy doesn’t happen immediately. Even without any underlying complications, the chance of getting pregnant in any single month is only about 20%, meaning it may take several months to conceive.
However, you may want to seek a fertility evaluation if:
- You’re under 35 and have and haven't become pregnant after 12 months of unprotected sex
- You’re 35 or older and haven’t become pregnant after 6 months of unprotected sex
You may benefit from fertility support before trying to conceive if you:
- Have irregular or absent periods
- Have a history of endometriosis, PCOS, pelvic infections, or reproductive surgery
- Have experienced three or more miscarriages
- Have a partner who is having trouble achieving or maintaining an erection
Fertility evaluations often begin with simple tests that assess hormone levels, ovulation, sperm health, and whether the uterus and fallopian tubes are functioning normally. Getting this information doesn’t mean you have to start treatment right away. For many patients, early conversations are about learning what’s going on and understanding their options.
It’s Okay to Need Fertility Support
One of the hardest parts of fertility struggles is the feeling that you “should” be able to get pregnant on your own, or that needing help somehow means you waited too long or did something incorrectly.
In reality, fertility is influenced by many factors that are outside of your control, including age, genetics, hormone levels, and reproductive health. Seeking support isn’t a sign of failure.
How Chelsea Fertility NYC Can Support Your Fertility Journey
If you’ve been trying longer than expected, have concerns about your cycles or health history, or simply want expert guidance, reaching out to a fertility specialist can be a helpful first step. At Chelsea Fertility NYC, patients receive personalized evaluations and clear explanations, focused on giving you the information you need to make informed decisions about your care. If you’re ready to learn more about your fertility and what your next steps could look like, schedule a consultation today.
